This is not the time to pretend to be someone that you’re not just because you don’t want to risk losing this person.If you are not yourself, you will have a very difficult time pretending to be someone that you’re not for the entirety of the relationship.
An example of that would be if you said that you LIKED to travel when you are afraid of flying!
You can only make up a certain number of excuses before your partner clues in to the fact that you don’t like to fly or travel.
If you pull out all the stops up front, you will be struggling and challenged to keep it up.
If you are yourself, you are comfortable and natural and this goes a lot further than pretending to be someone you’re not.
Too many people at the early stages make the mistake of dropping everything and being totally “on call” for their other half.
I can tell you that this is NOT a good move nor is it very healthy or attractive.In the early stages you want to make sure that you have very open communication.If you are always clear about your goals, your likes, your dislikes and your feelings, you will always know where you stand in that relationship.What attracts most people to someone is the fact that they have a life!What that means is that your life doesn’t revolve around your other half.This is the time that you truly feel and believe that you may have met the right one!